What Matters Most
I don’t typically open junk mail. In fact, I stop at my outside garbage can on my way in from the mailbox and toss out any junk mail and almost all catalogs before even going into my house.
An envelope bearing the name of Time Warner, our internet service provider, looked official to me, so I opened it. I was irritated that it was just junk mail, but the opening line caught my eye.
“Dear Gregg: Get what matters to you the most.”
This was an ad for cable television.
Long ago, Gregg and I were avid television/movie
freaks fans. We have 3 TiVos, and had to create an Excel spreadsheet to work out what came on what days, what channels, what times so that between the 3 TiVos, we’d get everything recorded that we wanted recorded. And somehow, we managed to watch them all.
All of this while “living for God.” “Doing God’s work.” “Being good Christians.”
I’m here to testify that it can’t be both.
In Matthew 6:24, Jesus Christ said:
No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.
“Mammon” being material wealth or greed. We were greedy for mindless entertainment put out by godless production companies bent on sucking us further into needing more entertainment.
It wasn’t until we broke away from it that we were able to see how the entertainment industry has completely permeated all aspects of life to the point that pastors reference pop culture from the pulpit, touting movie plots or fictional character dilemmas. I heard one pastor speak on the radio and reference a rated “R” movie whose plot revolved around unmarried sex, lying, and greed, but he used the reference in a positive note as if seeing the movie was a good thing.
One thing I hear all the time is that people’s lifestyles are so crazy and there isn’t time to spend with God. The thought of just fifteen minutes of devoted prayer time and a five minute “Sound Byte” devotional is overwhelming to many, not to speak of hours of devoted prayer time and hours of devoted Bible study. Yet, the average American adult spends 3-4 hours a day watching television.
Three to four HOURS a day.
At the height of our television watching, we were probably easily double that on average. The television was on whether I was up at 3AM nursing a baby or if it was noon and all children were sleeping.
It has been over two years since we canceled cable and cleaned out our movie selection. We don’t watch anything regularly and we hardly go to the movies anymore. We are so removed from the entertainment industry that, sitting in the doctor’s office the other day, I picked up a People Magazine and, flipping through the pictures, I did not recognize a single person. I find myself overly annoyed at Facebook statuses that are about television, especially when a new fall schedule is starting or some popular show is on and everyone is talking about it constantly. ESPECIALLY when the show glorifies some sin, yet the people all ga-ga over it are church going friends. I find myself equally annoyed when I listen to Christian radio DJ’s talking about the same shows and constantly discussing pop culture fads of the moment.
Once we made this change in our own lives, we suddenly had time to devote to God – to study the Bible and to pray. We were able to truly “live for God”, “do God’s work”, and “be good Christians”. The more we’ve studied the Word of God, the more we’ve poured all of our hearts, all of our souls, and all of our minds into loving Him (Matthew 22:37), the more we’ve been able to see how ALL of our vision had been skewed. How we’d fallen into the Western world’s focus of career and ambition, a big house and two cars, 3-4 hours of television a day, and how we’d fallen out of Christ’s focus on loving our neighbors, helping the needy, praying for the sick, and taking care of the fallen.
So what matters most? Does it matter more to have a faster cable connection with more channels, or can that $44 per month go to feed the hungry? Does it matter more to have designer clothes or to help clothe the homeless? Does it matter more to trade in the paid off car with a few years and a few thousand extra miles on it, or can that $700 a month car payment be applied to help a widow pay her bills? Does it matter that you missed American Idol last night, or that you spent an hour in devoted prayer and Bible study?
What matters most to you?
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God is my #1 always! I have noticed the more I do for others the less I watch tv. Cant recall how many years its been since I went to a movie! Its been a good 6 months since I rented one from the Red Box for a dollar! Do I have a few shows I still watch all the time? Yes I do. yet will I give them up if something comes up to help someone out or to go to a church event? Sure will! This is the time in my life that I am seeing the good come from me putting Gods people in this world as a priority in my life for him!It was he who told me to feed the homeless! It is he who puts certain people in my path to pray for or do something to help them out!Hes rewarded me by sending me ways to provide for the homeless or way to help me pay a light bill before they shut it off. So I think he moves us all away from tv or useless entertainment when he feels it will work for us the most.He shows us where to put more God and less world! So dont stress over the amount of anothers growth hon. god works with each of us in his pace not ours. Everyones time will come.We learn not anger but to pray for the situations that upset us with others. God will bring us there if he wants us to change! He always does! :O) God bless.
Hi Hallee! I found your blog from Raising Homemakers. Great post! My husband and I disconnected our satellite service 18 months ago. We don’t have ANY tv. We get our news on the internet and watch wholesome movies and shows from netflix every now and then. It has been such a time of growth in our lives. Thank you for posting this.
What a fabulous and thought-provoking post! I’ve glad I can say I don’t even own a television. It’s not worth sorting through all of the filth to get to a decent program.
I also found your blog through Raising Homemakers. And I’m your newest follower! Feel free to stop by my blog if you care to.