Changes
It’s been my intention that once school started, I would get back on a regular blog posting schedule. I have no more excuses, but this is the third week of school, and here it is Friday and nothing from me.
I wanted to bring you up to date about what’s been going on in our home and why the long silence from me.
I know a young mother from an online message group. My son Jeb and her son are the same age (5). She’s had some hard life happening lately and needed some help. I hired her to do some virtual assistance work for me so that we could help her financially. In the meantime, I found out she was homeless.
Gregg and I prayed about it and decided to bring her and her son into our home indefinitely. We’ve told her that this is her home, that we don’t expect anything from her in return, and that they are part of our family now. She came here Wednesday night – which is the first time we met. There are a few things that require some prayer about it:
- She isn’t a Christian and we are a faith filled home. We place God first and foremost in our home, and our lives are centered around worshiping Christ. We believe that Christ commanded us, in Matthew 25:31-46, to feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked, take care of the sick, and visit prisoners. We don’t think He meant to do it when it was convenient to us or when we felt the people were deserving. We believe He says that when we minister to people in need, we are ministering to HIM, and worshiping HIM. But, she had someone she cares about tell her they were worried we’d “convert” her, so she’s a little bit on edge about it. It makes me feel like I need to tread carefully, but at the same time, I don’t want to, so I find myself second-guessing the things I say or do.
- Our eating habits make no sense to her at all. She’s a Coke drinking, Kid Cuisine feeding mom who has a really picky eater for a son. It’s going to be interesting to see where lines get drawn. As I type this, there’s a Coke in my fridge for the first time in 10 years. I did take her to Good Foods and got her a couple different organic sodas to try. She’s unimpressed.
- She’s YOUNG. Like, she was born the year Gregg fought in his first war. She’s from a generation and a culture that we don’t really know much about, raising a son exactly the same age as our son. I’ll be curious to see the full aspects in the differences in our parenting.
- Our house is not large. He’s in the boys’ room, she’s on the couch until we can get a room in the basement secured for her.
We appreciate your prayers and look forward to giving you good reports about this change in our home and family dynamics.
In the meantime, now that I spent a week getting the house ready and getting her moved in, my excuses are all gone. Children are in school, my home is in order, my garden is over with — I will now publicly commit to making sure that I create and maintain a regular posting schedule. I’m not promising every day, but I will promise consistency where there hasn’t been in a long time.
Hallee
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It is a true blessing to “know” you and Gregg. You are a wonderful couple that are so willing to share. I will keep all of you in my prayers!
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As always, I am ever grateful to know you and Gregg with your big hearts and kind ways. And as always, I am not surprised you are helping this woman and her son who are so greatly in need. I have been the recipient of such kindnesses when times were rough for me and my sons and I know the gratitude and relief I felt at those times. *hugs* to you and Gregg and your family!!!
You are an inspiration! My prayers will be with you all.
You both are such a blessing to open your home. Will pray she sees Christ thru you and want Him.
I am so proud to “know” you and see how you truly live your faith. No matter what the long term outcome for your new houseguest is in your home, opening your home and hearts to her is a warm blessing and she will know Christ though you… whether she is open to hearing Him right now or later in her live. Your influence and touch will be with her forever and God will bless you all for your kindness, generosity and love.
The details will work out with a bit of compromise from everyone (like that Coke in your refrigerator) and the wonderful thing about being a young parent is that you don’t stay young forever and the things you have learned by experience will be evident by your family. I’m an older mom (43 with children who are 7, 4, 4, and 1) and have lots of friends in my parenting groups who were born after I finished college!
I will be praying for you, Hallee. Sounds like it might be a rough road ahead, but you opening your home to this mom and child is wonderful. You are being a reflection of Christ’s love to her.
I swear, you make me cry! Happy tears and a thankful heart. I’m so glad you’re my friend.
I’m very impressed. I would be a coward about leaving my comfort zone and sharing my space.
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I expect you can work it out with your friend about continuing to express your beliefs naturally in your household without making her feel pressured. I wonder how you will communicate this to the boys that they have to be polite about each others’ beliefs and non-beliefs in a way that respects both your beliefs and the non-Christian beliefs or non-beliefs of your friend. But maybe they have already had some practice with this at school.
That is certainly a concern for me. For instance: I told her we don’t celebrate Halloween, and we don’t believe in Santa, and we don’t do the Tooth Fairy. I made sure she understood before she moved here, in case that was a deal breaker. So, I’m sure my boys will elaborate on the lack of Santa. She’s not certain how she’ll handle it, but she’s prepared to have to.
AMAZING….really, I mean it…AMAZING. Praying for God to give you HIS grace as you all adjust!!
No one would blame you if your schedule remained irregular for a while. My family took in my mother’s step brother, his wife, and their daughter for a few months when they were relocating to our area. It was a major adjustment for everyone. God bless you for opening your home.
Priorities girl – you have them in order. :-) <3
Hallee, Does this young woman need anything? Clothing? IDK? Please let me know. Shelley
Oh my I am not sure I could do what you are doing for this woman and her child. She should thank God everyday she has a home and is not in a homeless shelter. You and your family are
wonderful, caring people.
Wow, I just love your family’s heart. That is what Jesus would do while, of course, as you are protecting the children he has blessed you with. I am looking forward to watching your journey in this and I will be praying: wisdom, peace, creativity, space and for her to fall in love with the Lord that makes your home different.
warmly,
Tammy