The 5 Best Kept Christian Secrets to the Best Sex Ever: Introduction
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I cannot wait until next friday!!!! I am so proud of you Hallee. I am not sure if you are aware of the “doors” that are going to open because of this…I believe this has the potential to do mighty awesome things for the Kingdom!!!! love ya
Thank you, Melissa. The same fears still exist, but I’m posting anyway – haha. Love you!
Hallee
While I understand and respect that your fantastic sex life is that way because of you and Gregg’s faith in God and love for each other, I disagree with the premise that relationships between non-Christians are not open, honest, loving and united. I also disagree that secular spouses do not have fantastic sex lifes that involve giving and receiving without fear, shame, embarassment or motive.
You do not know that the love that you and Gregg share with each other and with God is not similar, or for that matter less than, the love a secular husband and wife share for each other. Why? Because you can only know what is in your heart. You can only know what your relationship with each other is. Most importantly, you can only know what your sex life is.
I’ll bow out of this discussion from here on out, because I consider you a friend and because I love to read your blog (even when I disagree). But, I can say with certainty that this is the first time I have found you to be truely righetous and it is not a tone I appreciate or admire. Share with the world the joyous sex life you have because of the love you share with your husband and God. But, leave the sex lives of others out of it, because you have no idea.
Respectfully,
Sara
I truly appreciate you responding. I’m sorry if that’s how you read my tone. That’s never, ever my intent or my heart.
Hi Sara,
Very sorry if any feelings were hurt or offense was taken but I feel your comment is a tad over the top. Righteous? Really.
Obviously, it’s a very personal topic. Simply put, though, it is impossible to draw generalized comparisons without making at least one broad generalization. Even in doing so, I would like to point out that Hallee was careful to say “very often” and not say “always” or “every” or “without exception” anywhere in there.
And, for the record, she described 100% of every single secular sexual relationship *I* have ever been involved in in my life, always, and without exception, and that IS from my heart. This is evidence enough for me to personally know there is truth in the notion that a number of secular relationships are NOT all blue skies and constant joy. Been there. Done that. Got the divorce decree.
Even so, I think you may have read more intent into the post than was actually meant. If it doesn’t apply to you, then it doesn’t apply to you.
Thanks for reading, though. I enjoyed your perspective.
Gregg
Gregg, my feelings were not hurt. I was simply surprised to find Hallee making such broad generalizations about non-Christians because she is usually a very good example of leading people toward Christianity by demonstrating the good it has brought to her life, instead of showing the bad it has done to others’ lives. You are a smart man, I am certain you understand the distinction. This post could have been just as effective without tearing down other peoples’ marriages.
I cannot comment about your experience with sexual relationships outside of marriage or in a prior marriage because both of those situations are against my own personal non-christian values.
anyway, sorry for debating on your blog Hallee. :)
Hi again, Sara.
Truthfully, I don’t mind being judged, especially by non-Christians. Feel free to carry on.
Again, I think you have read far more intent into the post than it was actually meant to communicate. I don’t see any tearing down of others either generally or personally in this post. You seem to know as well as I do that such a thing doesn’t describe Hallee’s heart.
But, again, I honestly do appreciate your perspective.
Gregg
Were someone to define polar opposites, they’d just have to draw a picture of you and me. :-) We’ve been debating for years – we’ve probably gone head-to-head on all of the conventional debates and some out of left field debates and come around full circle a couple of times, yet we still managed to become friends. I value that. No need to apologize for debating.
Hallee